Surviving life without sugar, artificial sweeteners and diet soda. Conquering addition for a better healthier me.
November 14, 2012
I'm Josie,
Mom, daughter, sister, friend, business owner, and sugar addicted stress eater..
I was 38 when I got pregnant with my daughter. The same week I got pregnant I had a skiing accident which led to a total ACL reconstruction of my left knee. The rigorous exercise program and healthy eating habits that I had followed for ten years was put on hold. In the years that followed, my fairy tale life of love, marriage, family, health and fitness, began to unravel around me. With that, I became a stress eater and sugar my culprit.
Fast forward … My daughter is 14 and I am 80 pounds over weight, I have tried every diet including the “Raw” diet without success. Today I am challenging myself to change; change my eating habits, change the way I feel about myself, CHANGE.... I will be blogging daily, starting with today, my 53rd birthday. I will share with you my challenges, some solutions I come up with, photos, recipes and each success. It is my hope and desire to make a difference in my life as well as the lives of everyone that visits me here. Thank you for supporting me. I am now publicly accountable to myself and each of my readers. Come back often to read and see how I evolve. My goal for this year is weight loss and wellness. My diet is simple, whole foods and nothing artificial! I am using experience, logic and you to keep me going.
A journey of a thousand miles must begin with a single step. – Lao Tzu
The scale has always been a friend and a foe depending on what it read. My one year commitment is not about fast weight loss. My focus is on lifestyle change and as long as I’m going in the right direction, that’s what matters. I’m down 15 pounds thus far. I have cut out sugary foods, anything artificial and processed food. That really leaves healthy eating as my only option. At 25 days, I reach for a grapefruit or a small handful of raw almonds without thinking twice.
Being Prepared for Dinner and Passing up the annual dessert competition.
Every Thanksgiving we have a dessert competition and we take it very seriously. The entries are always amazing and delicious. This year, I am committed to change, change each day, and that includes Holidays.
Being prepared is key to success. I was completely aware of what I would be facing so I prepared myself by thinking through what was on the dinner menu and knew exactly what I could have based on what was being served. I knew there would be turkey, salad and vegetables on my safe list. I called ahead to find out how things were being prepared in order to bring what I would need to stay safe. Even on a strict eating plan, you can have Thanksgiving without feeling deprived. As I inquired about the food preparation, I learned that the sweet potatoes were being prepared in a way that I would have to pass on, so I brought my own baked sweet potato. It was very simple to do. If your serious about change, you will do whatever it takes and bringing your own food is a great alternative. I would never ask anyone to change what they are preparing to fit my needs, so bringing what I need is the smart choice for me.
This Thanksgiving, I was lucky because I only had to bring a sweet potato and I was able to put together this very healthy bountiful Thanksgiving Dinner. Yes, it was way to much food. My eyes were bigger then my stomach.
Photo by Josephine Donatelli
Annual Dessert Competition
Oh yes, the dessert competition did not disappoint this year. As a bystander, I can only say that all the entries looked amazing.
Each entry was bite size:
Photo by Josephine Donatelli
I successfully passed up the Dessert Competition by bringing my own dessert.
I prepared a “Raw” dessert dish that my sister Rosalie shared with me.
Blueberry Banana Pie with and a Raw Almond and Date crust.
Blueberry Banana Pie? Sounds like you could give them some competition yourself! Couldnt you enter your pie without sampling all the other stuff?
Sounds like you are doing wonderfully! Your Thanksgiving dinner looked fantastic and very healthy! I didnt take a pic of my dinner, but thinking back to it… it was so bland next to yours. Yours was colorful and looked so good. I had turkey (white), stuffing (brown), corn (yellow), rolls (tan), like I said, bland, bland, bland! I bought sweet potatoes & stuff to make green bean casserole and since Im the only one to eat that stuff, I didnt get around to making it! I really need to start thinking of myself and cooking what is healthy for me. Well, it would be healthy for everyone… but that’s up to them if they want to eat it or not! Keep up the good work!ReplyCancel
That Thanksgiving dinner looks so clean and healthy. I would love that myself. It’s quite a lot of food but nothing there will hurt you in the long run.ReplyCancel
Ok, everyday can offer you challenges especially when your a stress eater. My daughter turned 14 and we had a small party of 15 people. Some family, neighbors and friends. I was keeping it simple and serving pizza and ice cream cake. An hour and 1/2 or so before the pizza’s were coming, I put a large sweet potato in the oven. While everyone was helping themselves to the pizza, I unwrapped the sweet potato from it’s foil and began to eat it. It filled me up. While I served the ice cream cake, I felt satisfied. I have learned that I can’t even taste what I shouldn’t be eating so I washed my ice cream coated fingers instead of licking them and I got through this very difficult day easily.
That’s amazing when the pizza and ice cream are right in front of you and you can eat a sweet potato. It makes sense because sweet potatoes are very satisfying if we could just think ahead and plan, etc. Good job!ReplyCancel
I shot a double Bat Mitzvah for my dear friend Lee’s two grand daughters. While I was too busy to eat durning the affair, my challenge occurred back at her house at an after party. Lee’s niece, Chef Stef was visiting from Long Beach California. She brought some of her Award Winning Shmookies. I actually made it through the evening without trying one of her award winning creations but after everyone went to bed, I had to use the microwave to heat a heating pad for the tendonitis that I have in my right bicep, and right in front of me were her chocolates. I tried one. But only ONE! I didn’t let that trigger me into a sugar coma which is what I normally would do. Sweet Success!
Wow Josie….this is wonderful….read your blogs and sounds like you are doing great!!!!Keep them coming….I will check in occasionally to see how u are doing…..congratulations……Josie!!!!!and good luck……..RosaReplyCancel
After getting bumped from our flight home, we walked the airport looking for some lunch. Today was to be the first day I would take on my one year challenge to eat well and transform myself into a healthier, better ‘me’. As I looked at the menu, I told the waitress that I was sugar free, and eating only whole foods. She pointed to a dish that had chicken on a skewer and vegetables. I asked her if I could get the vegetables steamed plain and she replied that she could only give me plain spinach leaves as a substitute. I asked her to just bring the chicken and a salad with olive oil and vinegar on the side. When the salad came drenched in dressing, I asked her to please take it back and bring me one without dressing. Something so simple but so important.
Below is the dish I described above. I will be posting lots of pictures and videos as my journey continues.
How inspiring. You are very thorough in your sharing of the specific changes you are making on your journey. I will be sure to follow this blog. Also your photography is superb and all your healthy dishes look very scrumptious.
Thank you for your willingness to share your story. I think I will find it helpful on my own road to change. Looking forward to each post! I love the picture! Very inspiring!ReplyCancel
Blueberry Banana Pie? Sounds like you could give them some competition yourself! Couldnt you enter your pie without sampling all the other stuff?
Sounds like you are doing wonderfully! Your Thanksgiving dinner looked fantastic and very healthy! I didnt take a pic of my dinner, but thinking back to it… it was so bland next to yours. Yours was colorful and looked so good. I had turkey (white), stuffing (brown), corn (yellow), rolls (tan), like I said, bland, bland, bland! I bought sweet potatoes & stuff to make green bean casserole and since Im the only one to eat that stuff, I didnt get around to making it! I really need to start thinking of myself and cooking what is healthy for me. Well, it would be healthy for everyone… but that’s up to them if they want to eat it or not! Keep up the good work!
That Thanksgiving dinner looks so clean and healthy. I would love that myself. It’s quite a lot of food but nothing there will hurt you in the long run.